my friend's great and true words for a happy married life

As the time is coming nearer for my marriage I am feeling "how will be my post marriage life?"......to answer all these questions, my Friend has given me this poem as a gift to me to understand the life after marriage...thanks to my sweet friend who cares for me ...and thanks to God for giving me such friends to me..


You were not born together,
but together you shall be forevermore.

You shall be together when the white wings
of death scatter your days.

Aye, you shall be together even in the
silent memory of God.

But let there be spaces in your togetherness,
And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.

Love one another, but make not a bond of love.
Let it rather be a moving sea between
the shores of your souls.

Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup.
Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf.

Sing and dance together and be joyous,
but let each of you be alone,

Even as the strings of a lute are alone
though they quiver with the same music.

Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping.
For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.

And stand together, yet not too near together.
For the pillars of the temple stand apart,

And the oak tree and the cypress
grow not in each other's shadow

New phase of Life

its really great life between .."sagai to shaadi"

new life ..new feelings..new thoughts..new understandings ,,new words..its all new new new...

I never knew that life will be this much good to me...I always thought when some one enters into my life I have to change my life and adopt new ones....but I was absolutely wrong.. changing yourself is only not the meaning of life. but understating each other that is more important ,now I got to know this.

I think, in this phase of life every one feels the same which I am going through now.Giving importance to other ones feelings , slowly knowing each other .all this helps to feel the new in your life.

I am surprised to know about myself this much deeper!!! I never even knew that I could be like this also..hahaha all this is some one's magic...some special one's.

I wish we will always be like this and we get all those for which, we are actually deserve for.

The flower of our new life may continue to bloom like this and fill our lives with its colors of happiness.

got ENGAGED

it feels nice when someone enters in your life..whom you like ..

I am feeling the exact emotions these days...since I got engaged.

It feels great when you think that there is some one to love you alot like no one can do...always wants to keep you happy...

my life has entirely changed since some one has come into my life..the one who is my ..wouldbe husband ...

This is the life!!

jo sirf pariyonki kahaniyon mein sach hote suna tha ..it happened in my life.

Its like a Super hit Bollywood Story..that's happening in my life these days.

I happened to met the person, whom I saw in my dream(though I never met him in real)!! its not less than a miracle for me. I was just wondered...and like pinching myself to feel whether its true. Those were the exact persons I used to saw in my dreams.I don't know miracles happen or not..but it happened to me. Feeling like I am in a 'fairyland'.

all went very smoothly. and

wait.. wait... it's not THE END now...

then suddenly it all turned something bad.

there was the entry of a BADMAN,who spoiled all and says this could not happen...(warna kahani kaise banthi?). All became silent...moody...shocked....no one had an idea to make everything like before. But after some time everything became good like some one did magic.

ALL IS WELL now..

now I got realized "this is Life"...MY LIFE.!!

Need for Awareness on Health societies in India

A few members who related to a particular disease form like a group called Health Society.There is lack of awareness for these health societies in our country.They gained very much popularity in Foreign countries. These societies are formed like 'Society for Thalassemic patients', who need Blood Transfusion in every 3weeks; 'Parents' Association for Autistic Children',by the parents of children who can't respond quickly like all other normal children; 'Alzheimer's and Related Disorders Society of India ,who will slowly loss their memory.

• About these societies.

Some of the patients and their family members and Doctors form like a society to meet regularly and to share the information . These will be non-profit organisations by them who are related to that diseases directly or indirectly.

• Membership

The patients themselves ,their family members , Doctors ,and also who have ongoing research work on these particular diseases, and any interested persons,who want to build some confidence through their words into the patients. If there will be a possibility and if they have funds ,they build Websites and also try to setup Offices for their societies.

• What do they do in these societies?

the members of the society will meet regularly like one day in a month at a particular pre-decided place.If some one thinks these meetings will be like..'some patient telling his bad experience about his disease,and all are going to console him', then it will be a wrong estimation. In these meetings they play jokes to cheer-up the environment ans share information. Like the mother of an Alzheimer's patient tells the details about 'how she is getting her daughter into puzzles to make her memory sharpen.and gives the details of the shops where these kind of puzzle games are sold'.

and some of Doctors prescribe medicines , give research presentations about the ongoing studies on those diseases worldwide.

These meetings help the patients to minimise their pain..and feel fresh at least for sometime to forget about their killing diseases .

In these societies ,the members themselves try to help each other for example in Thalassemic patients' society they form a blood bank by that they don't have to run and search for that particular blood group who need a blood transfusion.

• Need for this kind of societies

There is big need for awareness for this kind of societies in our country.It will help and build confidence in patients and their family members to fight against those diseases as well to overcome their lack of knowledge .