Tum se hi.....

These days I'm humming all these songs ...."Tum se hi ..."....
main apne hi duniya me rahti hun aajkal...

these days will be sweet memories for my future married life .. I'm going to start my life with my loving husband and I'm sure the life will be very beautiful for both of us...

my friend's great and true words for a happy married life

As the time is coming nearer for my marriage I am feeling "how will be my post marriage life?"......to answer all these questions, my Friend has given me this poem as a gift to me to understand the life after marriage...thanks to my sweet friend who cares for me ...and thanks to God for giving me such friends to me..


You were not born together,
but together you shall be forevermore.

You shall be together when the white wings
of death scatter your days.

Aye, you shall be together even in the
silent memory of God.

But let there be spaces in your togetherness,
And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.

Love one another, but make not a bond of love.
Let it rather be a moving sea between
the shores of your souls.

Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup.
Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf.

Sing and dance together and be joyous,
but let each of you be alone,

Even as the strings of a lute are alone
though they quiver with the same music.

Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping.
For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.

And stand together, yet not too near together.
For the pillars of the temple stand apart,

And the oak tree and the cypress
grow not in each other's shadow